You will never be able to make God happy until you build a strong foundation in the way that He has instructed it to be built. You have to make the time to learn God's expectations, love, and instructions to be able to live the life meant for you. If you neglect to learn, then you will never be able to please God and life will feel like something is missing.
True foundation is built on faith in Jesus. He is the foundation for security, righteousness, and strength. It takes a long time to build a proper foundation. Once it is constructed, then everything else moves fairly quickly. You have to understand who you are in relation to Jesus. You have to know what you believe and why. You have to be able to glorify God in all situations. You need this to be ready to follow no matter what the world throws at you.
Faith is a commitment to walk with God in obedience. You don't have to be a scholar to obey God. At the same time you should not be content with salvation with no growth. God knows you thoroughly. He wants you to get to know Him in a similar way. If you journal, then you can see your growth over time. You should not be where you were 5 years ago.
As you grow in your relationship with God your life should reflect the truth found in God's Word. Test your life to His Word to see where adjustments need to be made. Is your lifestyle meeting God's approval? Do you even think about Jesus at all in your day? How can you have fellowship with God if you don't even think about Him in your day?
Matthew 6:34-35 & Colossians 3:1-4