A principle of God's is that you get what you give. Jesus basically said that you sow what you reap. If you are generous, kind, and loving, then you typically get that in response. If you are angry, bitter, or have a bad attitude, then you typically get negative attitude back. If you live a life of faith, then you will see God working in your life.
God wants a personal and intimate relationship with you, but you have to want it too. What you put into your relationship with God will be reflected in the kind of relationship you have with God. If you feed humility, then you will remember all the blessings that God has given you. If you feed pride, then you get spiritual amnesia. Pride wears down faith. This is why arrogance will make you fall and probably humiliate you.
If you allow God to work in your weakness, then you are more apt to stay humble and be a working agent for God. When you are humble, you notice when opportunity is knocking and obey God's commands. You see yourself in a healthy perspective. You are not prideful, but you don't beat yourself down either. You know who you are, where you stand with Jesus, and you work toward your purpose with confidence (not arrogance or pride).
When you rely on God you find strength. You see victory in life. You have purpose that people cannot take away. It is only when you stop relying on God that you begin to fail, stumble, and fall to pride. Hidden pride destroys relationships and makes life more difficult. Thank God for your weaknesses in life that cultivate you into a stronger warrior for Him. Pray over your hard relationships, times, and difficulties in life to see if they are rooted in pride or a weakness to be used by God.
Judges 7:1-3, 8:13-22, Psalm 103:1-5, Proverbs 11:25, 19:17, 30:7-9, Luke 6:37-39, 2 Corinthians 9:6-8, & Galatians 6:7-10