Jesus' Judgment will come when all your opportunities to have a relationship are done. We all have had infinite opportunities. The door closes at the moment of death or end of time. Either way we don't know when that day will be, but we can't say that we never had the opportunity.
Judgment will fall on everyone who did not believe in Jesus. It is not that he doesn't love us. It is that we chose our sinful life over him. We all fall short, but Jesus paid the price so that we could have salvation and be made holy. All you have to do is accept and believe.
If God will judge angels, then why would he not judge people? On the day of rapture, it will begin with the angels, then the dean, then the living saints. As the last trumpet bows, we will enter our new bodies. These bodies will not die, deteriorate, or diminish. They are eternal as they are given to us.
Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead after four days. He was already rotting, but Jesus brought him back to fullness of life with a few words. When Jesus died, the power behind it rose many Christians from the dead. However, each resurrection was only for a time. Every human body dies eventually. Jesus resurrected and ascended to Heaven in his body making it immortal. He is the only one with that power.
Jesus has the power to raise the dead. That means he also has the power to take life and judge all life. Your mortal body will transform into an immortal body. It doesn't matter if you are a Christian or not. This will happen. The only difference is that Christians will go live in eternal peace while unbelievers will go to experience eternal anguish. Jesus is the only one with the authority to judge anyone in this manner.
Matthew 7:1-6, John 5:19-29, 11:39-50, 1 Corinthians 15:1-2, & 1 Thessalonians 4:15-18