For the sword of the spirit to become a part of your lifestyle you have to invest into your relationship with God. The spirit led lifestyle includes surrendering your personal stuff to God daily, renewing your mind in His Word, and being led by the Holy Spirit. If you ever question if you are walking with God, then all you have to do is turn to the Bible and compare how you live to what He says on the subject.
Your sword becomes an offensive weapon as you mature in your walk with God. You learn, start having discussions, and then teach what you are learning. When things get challenging and hard to understand you lean into God in faith, trust, and prayer for the truth.
The spirit lifestyle is when your time in the Bible becomes a strategy to get to know God better. You use it to defend your faith when needed, but that is never the primary purpose. You are being intentional about your relationship with God and securing your spiritual armor because you know an attack will come. It is only a matter of when and how.
Allow the Bible to enlighten, encourage, and empower you. Your virtue, worth, and existence come from God. Never forget how loved and wanted you are. The Bible and the Holy Spirit builds your confidence and purpose in this world. Allow your worship display the sword in your hand. Live your life in this manner to produce holy fruit.
John 4:21-24, Romans 12:1-2, Galatians 5:16-26, Ephesians 3:14-19, 6:10-18, & 2 Timothy1:5-7