Wisdom in Seduction

     There is philosophy in sex, seductions, and everything in between.  Philosophy is the fundamental study of knowledge, reality, existence, and academic discipline.  Basically you choose a topic, learn what you can, and figure out how to apply what you learn into life.  The point is to think and discuss issues.  It is not meant to be a format for debating, arguing, or bullying.

    When you are looking at sex and relationships then you need to make sure you understand God's Word on the subject.  His way is how you can live a safe, fulfilled, vibrant sex life.  His ways protect the innocent.  It can lead to a lot of discussion.

    Once you learn God's laws on sex, apply them into your heart.  Really think on the subject because that will determine what kind of sex life you will live.  Wisdom comes from understanding that abstaining for a little while can lead to a wonderful and protected sex life once you are married.

    To ignore what you learn to get what you want in the moment is considered adulterous.  Any sex outside of marriage is adultery in God's law.  That is why we have to keep our eye on what we want in a marriage.  Treat the person you are dating as someone else's spouse.  Keep your focus on your home and let go of the folly of wondering.  If you have made mistakes, confess them to God and move forward.  It will not be held against you as long as your character displays true change.

    Women it is wise to dress conservatively, not to restrict yourself, but to honor your body.  It may keep unwanted attention away and it will make your husband feel special because he is the only one that gets to enjoy it: visually and sensually.  The message that the woman gives by dressing seductively is that she needs to use your body to have control.  She is crafty, loud, defiant, and will never be content with what she has at home.  Her character is brazen and over confident leaving herself more vulnerable.  She may appear appealing, but she is not worth what it will cost you in the long run.

    Men keep your eyes at home.  Stay with your wife and grow old together.  Don't tempt yourself by wondering what it would be like if....  Vows are serious and it is your responsibility to lead the marriage in those vows.  Treat her well and she will make you feel loved and satisfied.  Spoil each other and make love freely with each other.  Don't allow yourself to be tempted or you will be ensnared to the point of loosing everything you really care about.

    The point of marriage is to glorify God.  If you ignore your marriage, then you are in a way ignoring God.  Your relationship with God is displayed in your marriage, in how you treat your spouse.  Men need physical attention.  Women need emotional attention.  Take care of each other and you will both get what you need and maybe a lot more.  Wonder toward adultery and it will lead to the death of your marriage, spiritual death, and possibly your death.  

Proverbs 7