Wisdom in Sexuality

 

    To have wisdom is to have insight that preserves your knowledge.  That is vital when it comes to sex.  Sex is a philosophy all in itself.  Philosophically there is a wide range of what is right and wrong and it comes down to what suites the partners.  However, that is nothing like what God said sex should be.  His design for sexual relations is very simply black and white, but meant to be enjoyed in all aspects between the husband and wife.  He has no exceptions.

    Adultery is a problem that many marriages face.  It doesn't just harm the couple, but the relationships of the couple.  If there are children involved it can emotionally damage them for life.  Marriage is hard and at times things could look greener on the other side, but adultery is a double-edged sword that kills a part of who you are and your marriage.  Some survive, but things change and the relationship will never be what it was before.  It reveals a selfish and careless character in the relationship.

    Wisdom in sexuality is to know how to avoid temptation.  It understands that to fall prey to adultery is to loose emotional and spiritual strength, money, and possibly their home and family.  Sexual sin will consume your life.  It doesn't just have to be adultery.  

    Sexual defiance displays a hatred to God's discipline.  A wise person embraces God's discipline because it keep their life in order.  We all reap what we sew.  If we chose to ignore what we know is right and wrong, then we will have negative consequences.  If we choose to embrace God's laws and maybe appear boring or prudish, then we will have a longer thriving life and possibly a healthier and happier marriage.  

    God always blesses the pure and a faithful marriage.  It is our responsibility to learn this wisdom and pass it on.  Marriage is a blessing that we have to work at.  It should be full of love: emotional, spiritual, and physical.  It quires sacrifice, but you gain so much more if you are willing to do what needs to be done to save your marriage.  Intimacy is real and can thrive in the one relationship.

Proverbs 5