God's Design for Women

 

    God designed Women in relation to man, but differently.  Women are just as important as men and need to understand their significance.  We were made from man uniquely beautiful to have a permanent relationship.  God's design is one woman for one man in unity with God.

    Women were created to be the companion and helper of their man.  God made us so that man would not be alone or lonely.  He made us from man, so that the man would love his woman as much as he loves himself.  In God's design love was perfect and untainted.  Now some men and women do not know how to love themselves.  We need God to see our worth.

    Women were made for men, not to be a man.  We are his tribute in life.  We help him resolve problems instead of being the problem.  This is how we are a blessing to man.  When we try to manipulate, control, or rule over men, then we are stepping out of God's design.  That is when we become the problem instead of being part of the solution.  When we stay in our role as a woman and work with the man, then we are in unified dominion.  This is a sacred partnership that we call marriage.

    God made man, then woman from the man.  We came second.  We we the delayed creation, but that is what make us unique.  It should make us appreciate our men and show respect if they are willing to wait for us.  We were designed to be the value in his heart that drives him to work and be worthy of our love.  If we have to manipulate, nag, or argue for these things, then it is not holy love.

    All of God's creation came before Eve.  God designed us to be the crown on our man's head.  That means we were created to be beautiful, encouraging, respectful, and strong for our man.  We are what completes him.  Do not get me wrong, we all need to be complete in our relationship with God before we try to be complete in a relationship.  The point is that we are supposed to support and give life to his life instead of making life harder.  In return he should value us, respect us, and love us without looking for more in life.

    Not every man has a woman and not every woman has a man.  That does not mean that we can't love and respect the opposite sex for the role that they play in God's design.  That does not mean that we do not still need uphold holy love and respect our bodies as holy beings.  Single women need to trust that God will protect them since they do not have a man to protect them.  In all reality, it is God that does all the protecting anyway.  He just utilizes men as the stronger sex.

    Women need men to reproduce.  They are our providers, protector, and fathers.  They can't reproduce without us and neither can we.  We need each other.  Neither sex is better than the other.  We just have different roles in life.

    Women run into problems when men forfeit their duty as a man.  We are the ones that suffer because we have to step up and put ourselves in a role that God did not design for us.  This includes men who refuse to be a father forcing the woman to be a mother and father.  It is when men become lazy and do not support their families.  It is when men decide that they do not want to be men confusing the gender roles that God designed.

    Men need to teach their sons how to be a boyfriend to a girl, a husband, and a supporter of his family. The father needs to teach his son how to be a man.  Women need to teach their daughters why to stay pure for their future husbands, how to be a wife, and a woman.  The roles have to be taught.  

    When men do not honor their roles, then it is the woman that is left vulnerable in the world.  That means that we have do things to take care of ourselves and our families.  We have to plan and react to things in life.  It is a burden that we were never meant to carry.  It influences society and culture, even in the church.  Women have to be careful that they do not become prideful or allow the men that let us down to affect how we treat all men.

    Women are refined gifts to men.  However, if we need to have control over the men, then we have stepped out of our role designed by God.  That means that we become an unnecessary burden on men.  We can influence our men without manipulation.  We can guide them, but the leadership position is their by the design of God.

    Women's role is to be the crown of her man and the mother of his children.  God designed us complexly, but his design was perfect.  We have control over the anatomy of the lifeline.  We need to be aware of how we are unique from men and appreciate how God designed us.  The abilities that God gave women are amazing.  We can carry a living things in our womb and push a small human out of our bodies.  It is a miracle because how we give birth is a much smaller area than the baby.  

    Women are remarkable.  We juggle life in a way that men cannot.  We hold responsibilities that would be more difficult for men.  We were designed to be multitaskers.  God gave us authority over the home and the children.  We deserve respect if we honor the role that God gave us.

Genesis 2:18-3:16, Romans 1:18-20, 1 Corinthians 11:1-6, & 1 Timothy 2:9-15